The emotions of parenting can be as varied as the personalities of the ones you're parenting ... and I hesitate to tell you this, but once you are a parent, you are a parent for life. So, my suggestion is: work to recognize the good side of it and hang on to that as tight as you can. Because it will help when the emotions aren't the positive kind ...

It may be that one of the reasons I read voraciously and like to write, is my long time fascination with words I've not seen or heard before, and terms that are infrequently used or have gone out of fashion. If you continue to visit and read my blog, you may find this type of thing happening on a regular basis. Consider it a tiny peek into my brain - hopefully, one that will be of help to you , even if it's only as a moment of entertainment! Take, for instance RECIPROCITY ...

Over the last year I've been gradually becoming more aware of the seemingly little things in my life that have the ability to distract me at best, or at the worst, ruin my day. All because I let them without really understanding why I do. Probably the best way to explain is to let you read one of my journal entries from about six months ago ...

I know how blessed and fortunate I am, and I know there are thousands of people who have lost jobs and homes, friends and family members to the Covid pandemic. By posting this I am not making light of their struggles or sorrows – my heart goes out to each of them. I actually wrote the body of this at about month three of the shutdown in California. I went back through it last night and brought it up to date because I think for all of us, on different levels, it’s been a season of being forced to take a close look at our lives and figure out what’s really important to us … and sometimes you can’t see it until you realize it’s missing.